If you're
someone who believes that living in France is like vacationing in France, you
might want to leave this page now. Life abroad isn't all market-hopping,
croissant-eating, wine-slurping, terrace-lounging and baguette-chomping,
surprisingly enough. That's part of it, but there's another side which requires
much more patience, flexibility and attention to detail; the side that
involves paperwork,
rejection, more paperwork, waiting, more waiting and perhaps, if you’re lucky,
success.
I say all
of this because over the last year I've received many emails from readers
asking for tips on how they can pick up their lives and move abroad to get
their own piece of the French pie.
"How
can I become an expat?", they ask, hoping it’s easier than they imagine. Well… it’s
not. Every expat has their own, very personal experience moving their
lives to France, but each of us were held to the same rules and confronted with
the same frustrations.
I figured
it was time to take the conversation off email and post suggestions for those
who are genuinely serious and passionate about making the move
abroad, two very important pre-requisites.
These
options will not work for everyone so keep in mind it really depends on what
stage of your life you are in, your financial means, your career and how
well you respond to curveballs. I know much has been written on the subject and
I will be linking to a few friends who have tackled their own lists in order to
offer thorough advice. Any additional ideas or recommendations are welcome and
I hope we can begin a useful dialogue.
{Note:
any remarks regarding visas or legal authorization to work in France apply to
non-European Union residents}.
For students:
Look into
your school’s study abroad options and if they aren’t of a long enough duration
or not the focus you’re interested in, apply through another university or
organization like EF (see above video). I studied abroad in Paris twice,
first during a 6-week summer program with a focus on fashion and linguistics
and the second a full semester with an internship at the end.
Some
students will also spend up to a year studying at a French institution to dive
deeper into the language. Since 1919, the Cours de Civilisation Française program at
the Sorbonne has welcomed foreign students from all over the world and
remains one of the most well recognized academic programs for French studies.
{no American price tag for the program either – runs between €200 to €2,300}. Science Po (Science Politique) also offers
exchange and summer programs for foreign students both at the undergraduate and
graduate level. {more info}
Master’s
students on the job hunt are eligible for a 6 month extension with the Autorisation Provisoire de Sejour
(APS) which I first learned about on Anne’s Working in France
list.
For
In-Betweeners
I can no
longer count on two hands the number of people I know who have done the French Teaching Assistantship program through
the French Cultural Ministry either during a gap year in college or after
completing their studies. Not only does it provide a legal way to live and work
in France teaching English to French students for 7-9 months (including the
overseas departments – Guadeloupe, Martinique, Réunion, and French Guinea) but
it will contribute to improving your language skills. Anne of Prêt à
Voyager and Stephanie of La
Belle in France are both former teachers from this program and would
be useful resources.
Another
possibility would be to nanny in France for 6 months to a year with a French
family to build your language skills and test the waters. Could you live in
France permanently? Check out IAPA, the International Au Pair Organisation,
or the UFAAP for more information.
For
creative types and independents
If you
have a project that requires or could benefit from living in France (and you
can prove it), you might be eligible for the Skills and Talents Visa which is valid for 3
years. It’s by no means the easiest strategy, as the specifics are quite
involved, but it’s possible.
More
detailed information, including criteria for an approved project, HERE.
For
Professionals
If you’ve
recently entered the workforce or have a substantial level of experience and
have longstanding aspirations of living in France, target international
companies and organizations that have offices or subsidiaries abroad. I would
also inquire about the possibility of being transferred abroad, even for a
mission with a determined duration, right from the beginning. If you’re not in
any rush to move, put in the time in your home country and work toward coming
over as an expat {more often than not, the expat perks are far greater than if
you were to be hired directly by a French company}.
Or, you
can take the more challenging route and apply for positions directly in France.
Keep in mind that given the vulnerability of the economy, most companies are
still not willing to sponsor non European-Union natives for working papers, no
matter how qualified you might be. I’ve heard some success stories but as a
general rule, trying to move anywhere in the EU without an EU passport or
working papers complicates the process tenfold.
Other:
I’d be
remiss not to include marriage (and love!) as a viable option for making your
dream a reality. Easier said than done, of course, but if it happens naturally
(as you can imagine, France does not take kindly to fraudulent marriages and are
usually able to sniff them out) it’s like a golden ticket. If you’re not
currently in possession of a carte de séjour (temporary residency card,
renewable annually), you will have to apply for a Fiancé Visa (long stay visa)
to come to France.
You can
still get married in France on just your passport but you’ll be required to
return home and apply for the necessary papers to join your French spouse. In
some ways, that’s less of a gamble because you’ll already have the documents to
prove you’re married but it does mean shelling out money for another round trip
plane ticket. {Click here for more information}
Ready?
No matter
how you intend to make the move, you should keep a few things in mind. First,
after any extended period abroad, going “home” will never be the same.
Traveling changes you, almost always for the better, but it does mean moving
away from a former way of life and that can be very hard to accept for some
people. It was for me, initially.
If moving
to France is truly something you’re willing to work toward, despite the
obstacles you might encounter, it’s going to require patience. I still have
trouble with this but as is true for most things in life, the prize is sweet. Chez Loulou has more on that and other
necessary points to consider.
Questions?
Should
you have any questions or other suggestions, put them in the comment section
for others to consult.
Other
resources:
